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Don’t Debate Doing What’s Good: You’ll lose!
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Jesus Didn’t Have What I Have
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One Saved, Always Saved – Doesn’t Make Sense
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April 18, 2025
The Payoff of Complaining
April 11, 2025
The Law of Lecturing
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Pick Your Battles!
March 29, 2025
The When of Better Communications
March 24, 2025
Feeling Rule — NOT!
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The Great Writing Cliché
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The New Value Neutral Language
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Letter Overload
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Is faith in Jesus dead?
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Be careful who you complain to!
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Does discipline break the spirit?
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January 24, 2024
That’s Not Me!
January 16, 2024
The Power of the Cell Phone’s Ding
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Smart Phones vs. Conversations
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December 19, 2023
Reinforcing Consequences for Kids
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The Predatory Nature of Smart Phone Technology
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Time-Limited Holiday Frustrations
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Leaving Common Sense Behind
November 7, 2023
Don’t judge truth by those who don’t follow it.
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He doesn’t listen!
October 23, 2023
Are You Prickly?
October 17, 2023
Battered Parent Syndrome
October 10, 2023
Kids and Social Influencing
October 3, 2023
Do You Want To Be Content?
September 18, 2023
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September 12, 2023
Save Catastrophic Language for the Really Big Stuff!
September 4, 2023
What’s it going to hurt?
August 21, 2023
Self Identity With Broad Effects
August 14, 2023
Comfort Zone
August 8, 2023
The Futile Lecture
August 1, 2023
Anger Management Issues
July 24, 2023
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Give your kids a work ethic
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Personal Apology Percentage
June 26, 2023
Hate Speech
June 20, 2023
God & St. Francis Discuss Mowing the Lawn
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The Cascade Effect
June 5, 2023
Don’t Shove Your Morals on Me!
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The Durability of Personality
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Expressing or Disrespect?
October 4, 2022
Overstuffed With Stuff!
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September 19, 2022
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September 12, 2022
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August 29, 2022
Phraseology of Achieving
August 22, 2022
Just Ignore It!
August 15, 2022
Don’t go extreme on me!
August 8, 2022
The Law of Social Entropy
August 2, 2022
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July 26, 2022
Are Old People Invisible?
July 18, 2022
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July 11, 2022
The Right to Privacy
July 4, 2022
He Doesn’t Listen!
June 28, 2022
Dr. Jeckyll & Mr. Hyde
June 20, 2022
Can a person be your near occasion of sin?
June 14, 2022
Is your kid’s room a trash pit?
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Do your kids help with the housework?
May 30, 2022
Are You Spoiled?
May 24, 2022
True Self Image
May 16, 2022
Is that really Jesus in the Eucharist?
May 9, 2022
Resolve to Conquer Anxiety
May 2, 2022
The Marriage Test
April 25, 2022
You can’t hurt me; I won’t let you.
April 18, 2022
It Won’t Hurt Him!
April 11, 2022
I’m a Good Person!
April 4, 2022
You can’t protect them forever!
March 28, 2022
Kids and the Right to Privacy
March 20, 2022
Life’s Not Fair!
March 14, 2022
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Because I Said So!
February 27, 2022
Quiet Authority
February 21, 2022
Red Corvette Discipline
February 13, 2022
How much money would it take for you to not saying anything?
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A Dirty Communication Trick
February 3, 2022
A Child’s Behavior Can Make Him Unhappy
January 24, 2022
It’s all in the perception
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Columbo Parenting
January 10, 2022
Taking the sting out of others’ words
January 3, 2022
Getting Fit: Just Show Up!
December 30, 2021
Guarendi Family Christmas Letter
December 27, 2021
Too many toys under the Christmas tree?
December 20, 2021
Is self esteem a good thing?
December 7, 2021
How Covid Altered the American Psyche
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Happy Thanksgiving!
November 25, 2021
Is your skill a curse?
November 22, 2021
From Victim to Predator
November 9, 2021
Can we predict violence?
November 2, 2021
Don’t just act, “I’m sorry.”
October 25, 2021
You expect me to be perfect!
October 18, 2021
Is rolling eyes disrespectful?
October 12, 2021
As long as it takes…
October 5, 2021
Experts don’t like discipline.
September 27, 2021
Am I normal?
September 21, 2021
A Frightening Experiment
September 13, 2021
Peers ignoring the peers rule
September 6, 2021
Are you psychologically damaging your child by the way you talk?
August 31, 2021
Perception of Authority
August 24, 2021
Am I normal?
August 16, 2021
Are you smarter than an ant?
August 9, 2021
Are you a narcissist?
August 2, 2021
Me Too Tattoo!
July 27, 2021
How much risk can you live with?
July 12, 2021
How dare you imply I could be a holier spouse?
July 6, 2021
Which kid do you like best?
June 28, 2021
Social Media: A sticker system on steroids!
June 21, 2021
Formula Parenting
June 14, 2021
Could this be an early sign of dementia?
June 8, 2021
Am I wonderful or what?
May 31, 2021
Can you predict how you will handle a situation?
May 24, 2021
Are you smart?
May 18, 2021
Why Work?
May 10, 2021
You Don’t Trust Me!
May 4, 2021
Discipline: A Marathon – Not a Sprint
April 20, 2021
Why does Mom go ballistic?
April 13, 2021
Are the Gospels real?
April 6, 2021
What’s so good about Good Friday?
April 1, 2021
One Issue Voter
March 30, 2021
Bed Time Bad Times
March 22, 2021
Helping loved ones’ change their self-destructive behavior
March 15, 2021
Covid-19: Unintended Effects & Invisible Victims
March 8, 2021
Little Children Don’t Follow Any Rules
March 1, 2021
You’d better give something up
February 22, 2021
Watch out for the ‘WHY?’
February 16, 2021
Who declares your self-image?
February 8, 2021
I don’t understand God.
February 2, 2021
The Unintended Consequences of Divorce
January 25, 2021
The Best Expression of Compassion
January 19, 2021
Be at Peace
January 11, 2021
Fight, Flight or Fright?
January 4, 2021
Why wait until January 1st to make resolutions?
December 30, 2020
New Years Resolutions
December 28, 2020
The Meaning of Christmas
December 24, 2020
An Old Guarendi Christmas Letter
December 21, 2020
Shell Shocked 2nd Child Syndrome
December 15, 2020
How is your child wired?
December 7, 2020
Panic Attacks
November 30, 2020
Mandatory Mass?
November 24, 2020
Double Man-o-log! Do you believe a liar? And Incomprehensible to me.
November 10, 2020
Law of Diminishing Return
October 27, 2020
Parenting by Consensus
October 6, 2020
Are you afraid of seeing Jesus?
September 15, 2020
Did you cause your child to be that way?
August 31, 2020
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